Same-Day Booking: B-B-But I want it now!

I know you think of only yourself when you want to try to see Me RIGHT NOW! Thinking that I'm just waiting around specifically for you and your same day please-slap-me-across-the-face Mistress booking. Guess what: I'm not! Most Mistresses like Myself have full lives outside of this and better things to be doing than tending to your wants and so-called needs at the drop of a Louboutin. In this dynamic I never "snap to it", you do at My command!

It's written all over My ads, all over My website that same day sessions aren't something that is offered easily. Are they impossible? No, but the stars will have to align ever so precisely for you to be blessed with a same-day session. It will always be in your best interest to plan ahead of time to book with Me. If reading the frequently asked questions page wasn't enough to understand it, then let Me spell it out for you. My screening and deposit are set up so that not everyone will be able to meet with Me in the flesh unless you're able to follow instructions and prove that you're not a complete moron. When meeting in person I need to know exactly who is it that I'm meeting with in order to give you the best session I can, and if I feel wary of you in the slightest, I will not be meeting you. Screening takes time and if I'm already in a session, booked for the day, working on other projects or just enjoying My life your email might not be seen right away. It's recommended that you contact me at least 48 hours in advance of your requested session so that I have time to sort out all the screening and booking details.

It's also important to understand that when reaching out to book an in-person experience you must use My booking form. This will give Me all of the information I'll need to quickly screen you and have the inspiration of creating the scene in My head. If I cannot envision playing with you then I simply won't. I do welcome all levels to approach Me - and so that I understand how new or experienced you are within O/our lovely BDSM world answering the short form completely will give Me the insight into whether we will be a good fit. If you want to stick out from the piles of emails that make their way into My inbox, then filling out the booking form does exactly that!

Now you've sent in your completed booking form giving Me all the details I've asked for and screening information I'll need to meet. Only send correct information about yourself here, trying to elude my screening process by falsely representing yourself will guarantee you will never get the chance to see me. Once I've screened you and deemed you worthy to play with then I'll reply to the email address you had given in the form, so be sure it's spelled correctly! Otherwise, My response might not reach you--and W/we don't want any missed opportunities. Another thing you need to do in order to make sure My email reaches your inbox is to add My email ValerieMarvelle@gmail.com to your email recipient list. Failing to do this step could have My reply accidently sent to the spam folder. Check both your inbox and spam folders just in case. Await My response. As soon as My reply hits your inbox with a *ping* you'll have the last and final requirement in order to meet in the flesh: securing your time slot with a deposit.

Be aware that at the time of booking you must be ready to send your deposit immediately. I do not book with those who waste My time by not immediately sending Me the deposit when requested to do so. For most bookings a small deposit of $100 is all that's needed. This gets you onto My calendar and ensures W/we both agree to the meeting. In My email response I will give you very clearly detailed options on how to send it to Me. If this is your first-time meeting with a Pro Domme is it critical to understand that all online payment and deposit systems do not condone in-person meets. This will be outlined in the sites TOS. Never and I do mean NEVER mention anything alluding to an in-person meeting while sending a deposit or anything of the sort. I know what you're sending it for and who is sending it because I have given you specific instructions. You will never need to write in the notes section what your deposit is for, you must leave that message area blank.

*Click open the following examples*

Words to NOT use online during the deposit process or sites in general such as NiteFlirt/Sextpanther/iWantClips/ManyVids/OnlyFans/Etc:

Deposit In-person Session Tribute Worship Debt Contract Tax Fee Unblock Game

Examples of what NOT to say.

"Booking deposit for Jan 21st :)"

"I can't wait to meet you Mistress!"

"2 hour session fee"

Examples of what you can say.

"............" aka Nothing

"Have a lovely day, Mistress Marvelle!"

"I love you, Mistress Valerie!"

Going back to the main topic this blog was about: Same-Day bookings. As you see I have a very particular screening method for meeting in person. For this reason, I do not meet new clients same day, ever. I know the chances are high that you've been lurking around My ads &/or website for a few days, weeks, months, perhaps even years before reaching out to Me. This is fine, take the time you need to feel comfortable to meet. I encourage you to study up on My likes, dislikes, what I offer, the type of kinks I predominately am doing, etc. When you take in all of this information about Me before even reaching out it will shine through in the booking form that you want to be of service to ME specifically and you are not just randomly choosing just anyone off the internet at a whim. The boundaries I have in place are to keep those that wouldn't be a good fit for Me out. I reserve Myself only for My most dedicated marvellites and those that don't have the foresight to book in advance are proving themselves to be selfish, uninformed, and terribly undedicated subs for Me.

Whom do I offer same day bookings to? If by chance that I have the time in My day to accommodate same day, it is only offered to pre-screened or returning clients with a minimum of 3 hours' notice.

What does pre-screened mean?

This is an individual that sent Me their information for a booking in the foreseeable future, but doesn't have an exact day and time yet. They more than likely even send a gift/tribute in good faith showing that they are in fact serious about not wasting My time.

Those that choose this smart option are individuals that have plans to travel to San Diego for vacation, business, or to see Me specifically. OR have lives that make it difficult to plan too far out in the future and understand that booking same day comes with an additional cost they are happy to pay for the inconvenience.

In closing the inconvenience fee or otherwise known as the expedited appointment fee is $1000 on top of the session you wish to book, to clear My schedule for your session emergency. Again, this is only available selectively to returning or prescreened clients.

To clear up any confusion here's a couple of examples for you.

1. You've seen Me before and woke up finding out you had some time in your day. Thinking to yourself - I'd love to be under Mistress Valerie's control this evening. You reach out via the email thread W/we already have going from your previous sessions. In the most respectful way possible you ask if I'm able to accommodate your request for a 2 hour same day session with 7 hours' notice. You're in luck! I respond back saying that if you send the deposit in the next 60 minutes I'll see you. You send the deposit right away. 2 hour session (700) + Same day fee (1000) = a grand total of $1700. Congratulations, you were able to enjoy a same day booking!

2. You have an upcoming business trip to San Diego, however you'd like to enjoy some extra activities during your stay. Looking up Pro Dommes in San Diego you find your way to My website. Not knowing the exact dates yet, but 100% sure you'd like to meet with Me. You send in your booking form. Letting Me know in the notes that the date and time chosen is still up in the air for you but wanted to prescreen to make a chance of last minute booking easier. I inform you that without a deposit I cannot hold your time slot, you understand and fully acknowledge that there's a same day booking fee and I might not be available. You decide to take that chance. I screen you and say when you have a date and time in mind to reach out and to be ready to send the deposit. Fastforward to arriving in San Diego. Your morning meeting wrapped up earlier than planned and you see that you do have time to meet with Me. Reaching out in a respectful way, asking Me if I have the time slot available for a 4 hour session in 4 hours. You're in luck! I respond and agree to the time slot you want and request the deposit to be sent in the next 30 minutes to confirm the session. You send the deposit right away. 4 hour session (1400) + Same day fee (1000) = $2400. Congratulations, you were able to enjoy a same day booking!

3. You are perusing the internet with nothing to do that day, one hand on your c*ck and the other on the mouse. Clicking though the different ad malls to find someone that can possibly itch the kink scratch you have burning! You land on My ad and the way My dress fits tight across My body has you ready to immediately reach out for a session NOW! Clicking on My email you send out "Are you avail now for session?" You hear a *ping* of an email come through. Thinking that I replied so quickly that it's totally on! Opening the email, you see it's just the auto response. Giving you all the information, you need to order to send in a real booking request. You don't click over to the booking form and do not fill it out. Hours later (after I finish up a session where someone prebooked in advance) I respond to you with a personal email explaining that I don't see new clients same day and that if you have a date in the future to use My booking form to make the arrangements. Womp Womp, you have not successfully booked a same day session.