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Same-Day Booking: B-B-But I want it now!

Writer: Mistress Valerie MarvelleMistress Valerie Marvelle

I know you think of only yourself when you want to try to see Me RIGHT NOW! Thinking that I'm just waiting around specifically for you and your same day please-slap-me-across-the-face Mistress booking. Guess what: I'm not! Most Mistresses like Myself have full lives outside of this and better things to be doing than tending to your wants and so-called needs at the drop of a Louboutin. In this dynamic I never "snap to it", you do at My command!


It's written all over My ads, all over My website that same day sessions aren't something that is offered easily. Are they impossible? No, but the stars will have to align ever so precisely for you to be blessed with a same-day session. It will always be in your best interest to plan ahead of time to book with Me. If reading the frequently asked questions page wasn't enough to understand it, then let Me spell it out for you. My screening and deposit are set up so that not everyone will be able to meet with Me in the flesh unless you're able to follow instructions and prove that you're not a complete moron. When meeting in person I need to know exactly who is it that I'm meeting with in order to give you the best session I can, and if I feel wary of you in the slightest, I will not be meeting you. Screening takes time and if I'm already in a session, booked for the day, working on other projects or just enjoying My life your email might not be seen right away. It's recommended that you contact me at least 48 hours in advance of your requested session so that I have time to sort out all the screening and booking details.


It's also important to understand that when reaching out to book an in-person experience you must use My booking form. This will give Me all of the information I'll need to quickly screen you and have the inspiration of creating the scene in My head. If I cannot envision playing with you then I simply won't. I do welcome all levels to approach Me - and so that I understand how new or experienced you are within O/our lovely BDSM world answering the short form completely will give Me the insight into whether we will be a good fit. If you want to stick out from the piles of emails that make their way into My inbox, then filling out the booking form does exactly that!


Now you've sent in your completed booking form giving Me all the details I've asked for and screening information I'll need to meet. Only send correct information about yourself here, trying to elude my screening process by falsely representing yourself will guarantee you will never get the chance to see me. Once I've screened you and deemed you worthy to play with then I'll reply to the email address you had given in the form, so be sure it's spelled correctly! Otherwise, My response might not reach you--and W/we don't want any missed opportunities. Another thing you need to do in order to make sure My email reaches your inbox is to add My email ValerieMarvelle@gmail.com to your email recipient list. Failing to do this step could have My reply accidently sent to the spam folder. Check both your inbox and spam folders just in case. Await My response. As soon as My reply hits your inbox with a *ping* you'll have the last and final requirement in order to meet in the flesh: securing your time slot with a deposit.


Be aware that at the time of booking you must be ready to send your deposit immediately. I do not book with those who waste My time by not immediately sending Me the deposit when requested to do so. For most bookings a small deposit of $100 is all that's needed. This gets you onto My calendar and ensures W/we both agree to the meeting. In My email response I will give you very clearly detailed options on how to send it to Me. If this is your first-time meeting with a Pro Domme is it critical to understand that all online payment and deposit systems do not condone in-person meets. This will be outlined in the sites TOS. Never and I do mean NEVER mention anything alluding to an in-person meeting while sending a deposit or anything of the sort. I know what you're sending it for and who is sending it because I have given you specific instructions. You will never need to write in the notes section what your deposit is for, you must leave that message area blank.


*Click open the following examples*

Words to NOT use online during the deposit process or sites in general such as NiteFlirt/Sextpanther/iWantClips/ManyVids/OnlyFans/Etc:

Examples of what NOT to say.

Examples of what you can say.

Going back to the main topic this blog was about: Same-Day bookings. As you see I have a very particular screening method for meeting in person. For this reason, I do not meet new clients same day, ever. I know the chances are high that you've been lurking around My ads &/or website for a few days, weeks, months, perhaps even years before reaching out to Me. This is fine, take the time you need to feel comfortable to meet. I encourage you to study up on My likes, dislikes, what I offer, the type of kinks I predominately am doing, etc. When you take in all of this information about Me before even reaching out it will shine through in the booking form that you want to be of service to ME specifically and you are not just randomly choosing just anyone off the internet at a whim. The boundaries I have in place are to keep those that wouldn't be a good fit for Me out. I reserve Myself only for My most dedicated marvellites and those that don't have the foresight to book in advance are proving themselves to be selfish, uninformed, and terribly undedicated subs for Me.


Whom do I offer same day bookings to? If by chance that I have the time in My day to accommodate same day, it is only offered to pre-screened or returning clients with a minimum of 3 hours' notice.

What does pre-screened mean?

In closing the inconvenience fee or otherwise known as the expedited appointment fee is $1000 on top of the session you wish to book, to clear My schedule for your session emergency. Again, this is only available selectively to returning or prescreened clients.


To clear up any confusion here's a couple of examples for you.


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